this is going around tumblr and I think it’s completely off base with reality. if anyone said that to someone homosexual, they’d be considered ignorant and rude. I don’t agree with homophobic people, but I’m not gonna say something like that to them. why? because its preposterous. sexual attraction is a large part of a relationship, whether you’re having sex or not. just like homosexuality isn’t a conscious decision, neither is heterosexuality. I don’t agree with the “friend’s” opinion, but I definitely don’t agree with the person trying to prove her wrong. by that logic, everyone would be pansexual.